Feelings follow behavior

It is said that, “what we eat is what we are”, while what we feel is what we do. When we are sad we cry, when we are angry we frown and when we are happy we smile.
Our emotions determine the people we are, it controls the manner in which we deal with people and present ourselves to them. Our body language paints pictures to others and tells the story of who we are and where we come from. This action can be seen as pride. People show pride in many ways, the manner in which they speak and the technique in which they handle various situations. We see this in many business situations, whereby feelings from home influences business decisions and behavior of people at work.
People surmise the type of person you are via your feelings and actions. It is important that we take Emotional Intelligence into consideration as we need to be aware in handling ourselves and others. People show sympathy towards your feeling, thus the outcome is an action. It is important to show your feelings to people as your behavior proves to them that you take their ideas and feelings into consideration, thus making them feel better and secure in your presence as you are able to support them. Writers exaggerate and use exclamation marks to add emphasis on their writing. This is to encourage what they are feeling and to paint a vivid picture to the reader. The reader then understands exactly what the writer explains.
It works on exactly the same principle in person. We need to express what we feel, so that people do not confuse our ideas or beliefs and misunderstand us. It is important to develop and manage the correct image of the type of person you are, as your feelings could sometimes influence your behavior negatively, and your credibility and reputation affected.